ok apparently they changed the file path w/o bothering to tell me. NLog.cfg looks like this now :
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
<nlog xmlns="http://www.nlog-project.org/schemas/NLog.xsd" xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance">
<targets async="true">
<target name="File"
xsi:type="File"
fileName="C:\games\108_61_100_154_2302\1187699\arma3\AliveServer.log"
layout="${date} ${level} ${message}${onexception:inner=${newline}${exception:format=tostring}}"
keepFileOpen="true"
openFileCacheTimeout="60"
archiveFileName=""
archiveEvery="Day"
archiveNumbering="Rolling"
maxArchiveFiles="7"
/>
</targets>
<rules>
<logger name="*" writeTo="File"/>
</rules>
</nlog>
I am still getting no aliveserver.log anywhere